Turning grey was not a great issue for me. My white temples reminded me of my amazing mother. It was the texture that first caused me some concern. Though with conditioning the grey finally reacted to my styling techniques. I came upon a botanical line that had a clove colored shampoo and conditioner. I was so happy with the results it felt like a new me. It seemed to relax the strands as well as tone down the white color. Being all natural plant based, I was totally confident this would be my product for life. I used the shampoo and conditioner practically every day for 3 years. Recently my friends noticed a blue green tint to my grey hair. I was defensive at first because I did not really see these hues in the mirror. Then my husband said your hair is really very blue. I have since been seeking any information, including live chat with a rep from the company. They had some advice, obviously to buy their deep cleansing shampoo. But I don’t trust them any longer. I do not find any other information about uncolored grey hair turning blue on the internet. I am now becoming alarmed. My hair is shoulder lenth, thin and naturally wavy. I do have about 75% of natural brown left. The blue strands happen to surround my face. If I have to take on the look of an aging punk rocker I will rise to the occasion. But spike heels … never!! Is there anyone out there that has heard of this. Will I have to grow it out. HELP !!
Update: nearly 8 months after quitting coloring my hair, I still love the TRUE sparkling color I have. Don’t know how to describe it…gray, silver, a little white, still some brown (which is evidently just “me”) but it’s simply great.
Best of all (for my ego), for some reason I get compliments on my hair from people with some frequency…this never used to happen when I colored. Nice!
Missy, I just turned 49, have had grays since age 14.
Love the gray, hate the kinky ones! I only colored for a short while in my mid 30′s.
Could you please tell me the name of the product you are speaking of? Maybe it could just be used some of the time to help with texture.
Thanks so much!
Thanks for your response. The line is Aveda. Truly an amazing plant science for women. All their products feel so natural. The price is reasonable too.
This site – Going Gray – has done more for me than just encouraging me to give up coloring 8 months ago. It's made me acutely aware of how I live my life, how I present myself (MYself, not someone else's idea of what I should be at 59)…and it also sparked the desire to start a blog on my 59th birthday.
We are delighted that you have benefited from this blog and our wonderful community. Congratulations on your blog!!! We will be reading. It looks fantastic.
I have just decided to take the plunge and free myself of my concept of aging. My hairdresser is a 28 year old great stylist/colorer who keeps telling me "Just because you are 60 doesn't mean you have to look like you are 60." Are there any ways of coloring my hair gray over my current medium brown so when it grows out the gray roots will become part of my current hair? I have fine hair and it doesn't look very good shorter. Any suggestions would be appreciated!
Hi Bonnie,I am 61, and I am in that process and it has taken LONGER than I thought. I have short hair that was dyed light brown. I started in early Nov. 09 and have just now (March) gotten most of the brown to grow out with cutting it every 3 -4 weeks. I was surprised it took so long since I was also taking hair vitamins and eating quite a healthy diet. My ends in front are still golden brown but it is looking nearly all gray now. My hairdresser worked with me recently to try and get the brown out because my son's wedding is next week and I wanted it to look all one color. It won't but I am at peace with it. It is REALLY hard for the first 6-8 months…but you do get used to it. Find a hat/cap you like and wear it if you feel too self-conscious at times. Also, I told people I was growing my hear out….my friends don't understand. I don't care though because as it has gotten more gray all over I feel happy and empowered….yes, I really do. My advice is NOT to try to color over the brown…just grow it out, wear hats and be happy….your day is coming and you will look stunning!!! BUT essential is a GOOD CUT and trim it often. If you have a good cut that is half the battle. Get a stylist who will work with you and is happy for you to go gray. BTW I'm Bonnie too!!
I just came from my stylist and I am amazed at how she transformed my skunk hair into a gorgeous blend of silver, platinum, and gold. I decided to let my gray grow out about a month ago and already had the dreaded line.
I read all these stories about women covering up their roots for months, or worse, cutting it ALL off. My hairdresser added lots of platinum highlights, leaving enough of the brown so both the salt and the pepper blend in and will continue to as it grows.
Then she cut my shoulder length hair into a sassy bob. So I do NOT look matronly at all. BTW 'm 52.
i will post a picture soon
You all are inspirational! I will be turning 49 next Friday and have made a pact with my best friend to stop coloring our hair and embrace our natural color. How exciting to find you all and realize that I am part of a movement to support women who are being authentic. You rock!
Tried to go natural 2 years ago (was 36 at the time) and got so much crap from women, EVEN TOTAL STRANGERS!! My husband was a witness a few times of rude and ugly remarks about "letting myself go". It hurt and so I lost the battle and dyed again. Played with a few colors and now feel I REALLY want to be natural. I've been gray since my 20's and have been finding the true me through my yoga practice. My new stylist is going to help me make the transition with a rockin haircut and color to ease into my grays (I'm well over 50%).
It feels good to make the decision and am in a better place to do it now. Thank you for your book and website! It's been such an inspiration. Cheers to all you gorgeous silver foxes!!!
Dina, you go girl…I applaud you for being true to yourself. The most cutting remarks I have gotten have been from WOMEN. Why are we SO mean to one another. You do it for YOU…not them.
Ladies,
I'm 56 and started taking the plunge to transition to gray. Last color was 1/20/10 and about 1/2 inch has grown out. I'm amazed at how much shiny silver there is – and hopeful! I had medium dark brown hair with red highlights most of my life. In my mid-30's, a little gray started and I have colored since that time. It is now an every 4 weeks deal – and I want less maintenance, not more! I don't look my age – probably 10 years younger, so I don't know what this will do. I have an appointment with a colorist (suggested by a friend who is "platinum gray") for a consultation next week to hear options, costs, timing etc. I have an almost shoulder length layered bob – which I'm sure is going to have to go – for now – to shorter. I have highlighted and lightened – been several colors – and I'm just sick of it. It is time to be – ME! My mom is 93 and is snow white- beautiful. She colored her hair dark till she was 90 and got to stiff to sit in the chair for it; I don't want to do that!!! Facing the "why?' will be the hardest – why do we have to justify??
No need to justify – it's none of anyone's business. Most people will congratulate you. Those who look doubtful or disapprove, well, you don't need their approval. Trust me, I know – it's been 9 months since my last coloring and I'm more me now than ever.
Just tell people who ask "why" – "Why not?!" or "Because I want to let me be me." If someone thinks you're letting yourself go, think of it as "letting yourself BE."
Some advice please! I have been gray for about 10 years now. I am 49 – and feel fine with it. My hair is more salt them pepper and very dark underneath the crown. A few months ago my very hip very wonderful hairdresser suggested we put in skinny platinum highlights around my fce and around the crown to make the gray look more glamorous. I was all for it. Unfortunately – the highlights came out first bright orange, and then did them again and they were bright yellow, and then again and they were light yellow. The highlighted portions were also very damaged. It has been about 5 months now, and I am ready to try the process again. I really like how the lighter streaks look around my face, but Iam afraid of the another bad reaction with my hair.
Is there anyone out there who has done this successfully? Please advise.
Thanks.
I am another person who started going gray in her early 20's. Mine was caused by trauma from a car accident. I have been dyeing my hair since I was 21, and am finally tired of it all. I will be 40 this year, and am embracing my "whitish gray hair with the black ends", which was a result of dyeing my hair jet black just before Christmas.
My mother says I remind her of my Grandma Dot, who used to "paint" her gray hairs away. She started graying at the crown, just like I am doing now. My bangs have almost grown all the way out gray, and they look good. I have gotten so many compliments on my hair because of the color. I have also been told that I look too old with gray hair….
How different and vast are the experiences of the ladies who post here!
I am a 58-yr-old natural brunette. My hair was always a nice color, but sometimes I would put color gloss (temporary color) on it, and even frosted it 2 or 3 times. But never permanent dye. Wasn't much need for that, as I didn't really have any serious gray until my mid 40's.
I haven't used any chemicals on my hair in at least 6 years, and it has not been difficult to deal with more gray hair coming in. I like my salt and pepper look very much, and I get compliments on it. I believe that my hair is graying very evenly.
I notice that many women here had colored their hair for a long time, and many others had longer hair. I can well imagine that the decision to go gray could have been agonizing for them, especially waiting for all of the color to grow out, and I respect that. However, it just wasn't difficult for me, as I have tended to favor short haircuts for most of my life. After that last color gloss in 2002, I let it go natural, and never looked back.
Probably the hardest thing for me to accept is that permanent waves just aren't going to work well for me any more. I have stick straight hair, and now have to use styling tools to do anything special with my hair. The last perm I got was in 2004, and I could not deal with the unpredictable, wiry gray hair in its reaction to the chemicals. And so I've had to adapt with easier hairstyles.
I work very hard at living a healthy lifestyle — eating right and exercising. I wouldn't say I look younger than my age, but still, I look pretty darn good for 58.
If some women feel comfortable as blondes, and they have the time and money to make this a regular pursuit, I say "go for it." My hairdresser is about my age, and has beautiful blonde hair that she colors and re-touches. She is very supportive of my decision to remain natural, though.
My 90 year old mom still puts a rinse on her hair. I can't imagine what her gray hair looks like (or maybe it's white by now!) I have no idea! She is a natural redhead, and I have a vague memory of her having some gray hair mixed in when she was middle-aged.
I put a link to my blog if you want to see me. The last pic I posted is of me.
Ok…..I am a former brunette who has been trying to go gray for about a year now, First my colorist added low lights but I still had a large white stripe that drove me crazy. Now she has tried to remove the years of color from my hair and I am left with a wide salt and pepper stripe at my part with bleached blond ends. Is there anything I can do to remove what is left of the dye I've used. This is really not fun. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Does anyone out there know of a "home remedy" for gray/white hair that is taking on a brassy/yellow tint in parts? Also, does anyone know if silver earings can cause it?
I am 66 years old and have been coloring my hair myself since I was 18. That’s long time and my arms are really tired. Up until a few years ago It was a dark auburn (a highlight of my naturally dark brown hair) and then when I turned 50 I went to a medium auburn. This color has suited me very well and I’ve received many compliments on it through the years. The last year or so as the new growth appeared I noticed more and more gray/silver/white coming in and liked what I saw. I’ve started to let it grow out a few times before and but gave up once there was 1" or more growth. There’s a definite contrast in value between the auburn and the new growth and as I read these blogs I realize how long the process will take. I like my hair style of an almost shoulder length bob with bangs and intend to keep it that way. I am so encouraged by everyone’s experiences and comments and want you to know how much I appreciate your openness and honesty. I’ve decided to just go for it and let it grow out naturally. I may/may not try Ops but will do some further research on it before doing so. Even though a major part of my identify has been my hair color though my life I’m looking forward to what the "new" natural color will bring. I feel honored to enter the Realm of Glorious Grays!
I was a medium brown. Now my hair is a mix of brown and white/gray. I love the mix of colors, but what I can't figure out is what colors to wear! I am not a salt and pepper. I look kind of mousey and worn out next to a really nice gray/white/salt & pepper woman. Any ideas or links to photos? Fashion over 50 is what I'm talking about…and colors that set off my hair, not make it look boring and dull.
OK. I am probably 100% grey or white–I wouldn't know since I have had my hair colored for 15+ years. I do, however, insist upon a white "streak" just to remind me…
Anyway, I have had increasingly difficult times with hair colorists and am now a very dark brown/black. Sure, it was my natural color 20 years ago, but it is now a bit harsh and unnatural. I have been reluctant to go to my natural grey for a variety of reasons: my husband is totally white and we have an 18 yr. old son who doesn't want "grandparents" for parents. My sister-in-law is in the same situation and everyone assumes she is the grandmother!
Anyway, I have this box of Color Oops here on the counter and I am really tempted to try it. I just don't know what to expect–especially from the recently-dyed roots. The weirdest thing is that I used to have thick, coarse, frizzy/curly hair which is now straight and fine. Oh, the mysteries of hormones! So, does anyone have advice or support here? I'll be 60 next year but feel (of course) much younger and none of my older friends have grey hair so I am hesitate to look older than my grandparent friends while I am still trying to get my son through high school…
Hi Nikki, we don't have any experience with Color Oops, can't give any advice here, we can only assure you that there are plenty of women who are redefining beauty with a head full of gray hair. Gray hair doesn't have to equate to being "old", whatever "old" means to you (it doesn't sound like this word gives you good feelings) but we hear your hesitation to go gray…understood. Many women who make this choice are very comfortable with who they are and where they are in their lives. So our question…what would going gray give you more of? More power? More freedom? More self-expression? It's really a personal choice.
{ 76 comments… read them below or add one }
← Previous Comments
Turning grey was not a great issue for me. My white temples reminded me of my amazing mother. It was the texture that first caused me some concern. Though with conditioning the grey finally reacted to my styling techniques. I came upon a botanical line that had a clove colored shampoo and conditioner. I was so happy with the results it felt like a new me. It seemed to relax the strands as well as tone down the white color. Being all natural plant based, I was totally confident this would be my product for life. I used the shampoo and conditioner practically every day for 3 years. Recently my friends noticed a blue green tint to my grey hair. I was defensive at first because I did not really see these hues in the mirror. Then my husband said your hair is really very blue. I have since been seeking any information, including live chat with a rep from the company. They had some advice, obviously to buy their deep cleansing shampoo. But I don’t trust them any longer. I do not find any other information about uncolored grey hair turning blue on the internet. I am now becoming alarmed. My hair is shoulder lenth, thin and naturally wavy. I do have about 75% of natural brown left. The blue strands happen to surround my face. If I have to take on the look of an aging punk rocker I will rise to the occasion. But spike heels … never!! Is there anyone out there that has heard of this. Will I have to grow it out. HELP !!
Update: nearly 8 months after quitting coloring my hair, I still love the TRUE sparkling color I have. Don’t know how to describe it…gray, silver, a little white, still some brown (which is evidently just “me”) but it’s simply great.
Best of all (for my ego), for some reason I get compliments on my hair from people with some frequency…this never used to happen when I colored. Nice!
Missy, I just turned 49, have had grays since age 14.
Love the gray, hate the kinky ones! I only colored for a short while in my mid 30′s.
Could you please tell me the name of the product you are speaking of? Maybe it could just be used some of the time to help with texture.
Thanks so much!
Thanks for your response. The line is Aveda. Truly an amazing plant science for women. All their products feel so natural. The price is reasonable too.
This site – Going Gray – has done more for me than just encouraging me to give up coloring 8 months ago. It's made me acutely aware of how I live my life, how I present myself (MYself, not someone else's idea of what I should be at 59)…and it also sparked the desire to start a blog on my 59th birthday.
Trish,
We are delighted that you have benefited from this blog and our wonderful community. Congratulations on your blog!!! We will be reading. It looks fantastic.
I have just decided to take the plunge and free myself of my concept of aging. My hairdresser is a 28 year old great stylist/colorer who keeps telling me "Just because you are 60 doesn't mean you have to look like you are 60." Are there any ways of coloring my hair gray over my current medium brown so when it grows out the gray roots will become part of my current hair? I have fine hair and it doesn't look very good shorter. Any suggestions would be appreciated!
Hi Bonnie,I am 61, and I am in that process and it has taken LONGER than I thought. I have short hair that was dyed light brown. I started in early Nov. 09 and have just now (March) gotten most of the brown to grow out with cutting it every 3 -4 weeks. I was surprised it took so long since I was also taking hair vitamins and eating quite a healthy diet. My ends in front are still golden brown but it is looking nearly all gray now. My hairdresser worked with me recently to try and get the brown out because my son's wedding is next week and I wanted it to look all one color. It won't but I am at peace with it. It is REALLY hard for the first 6-8 months…but you do get used to it. Find a hat/cap you like and wear it if you feel too self-conscious at times. Also, I told people I was growing my hear out….my friends don't understand. I don't care though because as it has gotten more gray all over I feel happy and empowered….yes, I really do. My advice is NOT to try to color over the brown…just grow it out, wear hats and be happy….your day is coming and you will look stunning!!! BUT essential is a GOOD CUT and trim it often. If you have a good cut that is half the battle. Get a stylist who will work with you and is happy for you to go gray. BTW I'm Bonnie too!!
I just came from my stylist and I am amazed at how she transformed my skunk hair into a gorgeous blend of silver, platinum, and gold. I decided to let my gray grow out about a month ago and already had the dreaded line.
I read all these stories about women covering up their roots for months, or worse, cutting it ALL off. My hairdresser added lots of platinum highlights, leaving enough of the brown so both the salt and the pepper blend in and will continue to as it grows.
Then she cut my shoulder length hair into a sassy bob. So I do NOT look matronly at all. BTW 'm 52.
i will post a picture soon
You all are inspirational! I will be turning 49 next Friday and have made a pact with my best friend to stop coloring our hair and embrace our natural color. How exciting to find you all and realize that I am part of a movement to support women who are being authentic. You rock!
Tried to go natural 2 years ago (was 36 at the time) and got so much crap from women, EVEN TOTAL STRANGERS!! My husband was a witness a few times of rude and ugly remarks about "letting myself go". It hurt and so I lost the battle and dyed again. Played with a few colors and now feel I REALLY want to be natural. I've been gray since my 20's and have been finding the true me through my yoga practice. My new stylist is going to help me make the transition with a rockin haircut and color to ease into my grays (I'm well over 50%).
Cheers to all you gorgeous silver foxes!!!
It feels good to make the decision and am in a better place to do it now. Thank you for your book and website! It's been such an inspiration.
Dina, you go girl…I applaud you for being true to yourself. The most cutting remarks I have gotten have been from WOMEN. Why are we SO mean to one another. You do it for YOU…not them.
Ladies,
I'm 56 and started taking the plunge to transition to gray. Last color was 1/20/10 and about 1/2 inch has grown out. I'm amazed at how much shiny silver there is – and hopeful! I had medium dark brown hair with red highlights most of my life. In my mid-30's, a little gray started and I have colored since that time. It is now an every 4 weeks deal – and I want less maintenance, not more! I don't look my age – probably 10 years younger, so I don't know what this will do. I have an appointment with a colorist (suggested by a friend who is "platinum gray") for a consultation next week to hear options, costs, timing etc. I have an almost shoulder length layered bob – which I'm sure is going to have to go – for now – to shorter. I have highlighted and lightened – been several colors – and I'm just sick of it. It is time to be – ME! My mom is 93 and is snow white- beautiful. She colored her hair dark till she was 90 and got to stiff to sit in the chair for it; I don't want to do that!!! Facing the "why?' will be the hardest – why do we have to justify??
Martie
No need to justify – it's none of anyone's business. Most people will congratulate you. Those who look doubtful or disapprove, well, you don't need their approval. Trust me, I know – it's been 9 months since my last coloring and I'm more me now than ever.
Just tell people who ask "why" – "Why not?!" or "Because I want to let me be me." If someone thinks you're letting yourself go, think of it as "letting yourself BE."
We don't but I say…"Because I want to be natural".
Some advice please! I have been gray for about 10 years now. I am 49 – and feel fine with it. My hair is more salt them pepper and very dark underneath the crown. A few months ago my very hip very wonderful hairdresser suggested we put in skinny platinum highlights around my fce and around the crown to make the gray look more glamorous. I was all for it. Unfortunately – the highlights came out first bright orange, and then did them again and they were bright yellow, and then again and they were light yellow. The highlighted portions were also very damaged. It has been about 5 months now, and I am ready to try the process again. I really like how the lighter streaks look around my face, but Iam afraid of the another bad reaction with my hair.
Is there anyone out there who has done this successfully? Please advise.
Thanks.
I am another person who started going gray in her early 20's. Mine was caused by trauma from a car accident. I have been dyeing my hair since I was 21, and am finally tired of it all. I will be 40 this year, and am embracing my "whitish gray hair with the black ends", which was a result of dyeing my hair jet black just before Christmas.
My mother says I remind her of my Grandma Dot, who used to "paint" her gray hairs away. She started graying at the crown, just like I am doing now. My bangs have almost grown all the way out gray, and they look good. I have gotten so many compliments on my hair because of the color. I have also been told that I look too old with gray hair….
Keep up the good work!!!!
How different and vast are the experiences of the ladies who post here!
I am a 58-yr-old natural brunette. My hair was always a nice color, but sometimes I would put color gloss (temporary color) on it, and even frosted it 2 or 3 times. But never permanent dye. Wasn't much need for that, as I didn't really have any serious gray until my mid 40's.
I haven't used any chemicals on my hair in at least 6 years, and it has not been difficult to deal with more gray hair coming in. I like my salt and pepper look very much, and I get compliments on it. I believe that my hair is graying very evenly.
I notice that many women here had colored their hair for a long time, and many others had longer hair. I can well imagine that the decision to go gray could have been agonizing for them, especially waiting for all of the color to grow out, and I respect that. However, it just wasn't difficult for me, as I have tended to favor short haircuts for most of my life. After that last color gloss in 2002, I let it go natural, and never looked back.
Probably the hardest thing for me to accept is that permanent waves just aren't going to work well for me any more. I have stick straight hair, and now have to use styling tools to do anything special with my hair. The last perm I got was in 2004, and I could not deal with the unpredictable, wiry gray hair in its reaction to the chemicals. And so I've had to adapt with easier hairstyles.
I work very hard at living a healthy lifestyle — eating right and exercising. I wouldn't say I look younger than my age, but still, I look pretty darn good for 58.
If some women feel comfortable as blondes, and they have the time and money to make this a regular pursuit, I say "go for it." My hairdresser is about my age, and has beautiful blonde hair that she colors and re-touches. She is very supportive of my decision to remain natural, though.
My 90 year old mom still puts a rinse on her hair. I can't imagine what her gray hair looks like (or maybe it's white by now!) I have no idea! She is a natural redhead, and I have a vague memory of her having some gray hair mixed in when she was middle-aged.
I put a link to my blog if you want to see me. The last pic I posted is of me.
Ok…..I am a former brunette who has been trying to go gray for about a year now, First my colorist added low lights but I still had a large white stripe that drove me crazy. Now she has tried to remove the years of color from my hair and I am left with a wide salt and pepper stripe at my part with bleached blond ends. Is there anything I can do to remove what is left of the dye I've used. This is really not fun. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Does anyone out there know of a "home remedy" for gray/white hair that is taking on a brassy/yellow tint in parts? Also, does anyone know if silver earings can cause it?
I am 66 years old and have been coloring my hair myself since I was 18. That’s long time and my arms are really tired. Up until a few years ago It was a dark auburn (a highlight of my naturally dark brown hair) and then when I turned 50 I went to a medium auburn. This color has suited me very well and I’ve received many compliments on it through the years. The last year or so as the new growth appeared I noticed more and more gray/silver/white coming in and liked what I saw. I’ve started to let it grow out a few times before and but gave up once there was 1" or more growth. There’s a definite contrast in value between the auburn and the new growth and as I read these blogs I realize how long the process will take. I like my hair style of an almost shoulder length bob with bangs and intend to keep it that way. I am so encouraged by everyone’s experiences and comments and want you to know how much I appreciate your openness and honesty. I’ve decided to just go for it and let it grow out naturally. I may/may not try Ops but will do some further research on it before doing so. Even though a major part of my identify has been my hair color though my life I’m looking forward to what the "new" natural color will bring. I feel honored to enter the Realm of Glorious Grays!
I was a medium brown. Now my hair is a mix of brown and white/gray. I love the mix of colors, but what I can't figure out is what colors to wear! I am not a salt and pepper. I look kind of mousey and worn out next to a really nice gray/white/salt & pepper woman. Any ideas or links to photos? Fashion over 50 is what I'm talking about…and colors that set off my hair, not make it look boring and dull.
OK. I am probably 100% grey or white–I wouldn't know since I have had my hair colored for 15+ years. I do, however, insist upon a white "streak" just to remind me…
Anyway, I have had increasingly difficult times with hair colorists and am now a very dark brown/black. Sure, it was my natural color 20 years ago, but it is now a bit harsh and unnatural. I have been reluctant to go to my natural grey for a variety of reasons: my husband is totally white and we have an 18 yr. old son who doesn't want "grandparents" for parents. My sister-in-law is in the same situation and everyone assumes she is the grandmother!
Anyway, I have this box of Color Oops here on the counter and I am really tempted to try it. I just don't know what to expect–especially from the recently-dyed roots. The weirdest thing is that I used to have thick, coarse, frizzy/curly hair which is now straight and fine. Oh, the mysteries of hormones! So, does anyone have advice or support here? I'll be 60 next year but feel (of course) much younger and none of my older friends have grey hair so I am hesitate to look older than my grandparent friends while I am still trying to get my son through high school…
Hi Nikki, we don't have any experience with Color Oops, can't give any advice here, we can only assure you that there are plenty of women who are redefining beauty with a head full of gray hair. Gray hair doesn't have to equate to being "old", whatever "old" means to you (it doesn't sound like this word gives you good feelings) but we hear your hesitation to go gray…understood. Many women who make this choice are very comfortable with who they are and where they are in their lives. So our question…what would going gray give you more of? More power? More freedom? More self-expression? It's really a personal choice.
← Previous Comments